A quote on Dominance and submission.

Dominance is guiding another to feel emotions unimagined, joys never before thought possible and affection without measure.

Submission is a gift that must be earned through passion and compassion; it can be given, but never taken.

Helping my partner to let go completely, accepting only her very best.

The energy of the moment is everything.

To make love to her with a single caress, to feel her heart beat from across the room, to know her thoughts by looking in her eyes...

I will settle for nothing less, and neither should you.

                                                         - Author Unknown


I had a discussion today, as I have had a few times before, about my frustration with D/s and BDSM fics not capturing feelings. I get that not everyone wants them, that obviously some people just want the porn and nothing else (I mean otherwise people wouldn't write that, right?), but for me, it's all about the feelings. I really don't care if a D/s fic is light on the smut if it's heavy on the feelings. 

So, I set about looking for things that put what I want into words. 

And then I found this. 

B-I-N-G-O. 

30d days of smut....

 Just wanted to say that I'm putting off starting 30 days of smut for a bit. Been feeling tired and ill-ish lately plus kidlet sleeps all sorts of hours all of a sudden (hello teething!) so I feel a little too braindead to produce good work. But hoping to be back on track in a week or two. :) Some people said they were excited to see my work so just so you know I'm not giving up on it!